GROW IN YOUR NEW MARRIAGE THROUGH FAITH

The Importance Of Faith In Marriage
It’s essential to have strong faith in each other and in the relationship itself. Faith ensures that the bond between husband and wife remains solid and unbreakable. A shared faith will give the marriage a sense of security and provide a foundation that can help couples overcome difficult times. It can also help them to make wise and informed decisions, as well as provide guidance and support in times of crisis.

Are you a skeptic? It is normal to have doubts about the effect of faith in marriage, but there have been several studies that highlight that young couples who follow the biblical text build a strong and lasting union. You can find many studies in the Journal of Family Psychology on the effect of prayer on marriage and how faith keeps couples happily together even through the challenges of marriage.

Faith Can Help Young Couples In Many Ways. Here Are Some Ways That It Can Help Your Marriage:

• You learn compassion by praying for your partner
  

We all turn to God during difficult times, but choosing to pray for your partner can help you learn compassion and empathy for them. Praying for others shows that we care about the welfare of others and that we want God to watch over our loved ones. When you pray for your partner, you will begin to realize how much they mean to you, which will help you to create a deeper and more meaningful relationship with them.

• Prayer helps you to be open and honest

You will develop spiritual intimacy with your spouse if you practice your faith and beliefs with them. Talking about God and the effect that the Bible and Jesus have on you can help you open the lines of communication during challenging times. It is through communication that we learn how to be open and honest about our feelings. The more you communicate with your spouse and show them that you are there for them, the more likely it is that they will turn to you to discuss marital issues that may be upsetting them.

• Faith motivates your marriage

Those who have a strong commitment to the Bible and God know that marriage is sacred. Sacred beliefs help you to stay motivated in your marriage. Faith can encourage us in ways that we never thought were possible. You will feel motivated to work harder to maintain a good relationship with your spouse. Faith will help encourage you to work on your marriage, even when things seem bleak.
 

• Deepening your relationship

Couples tend to have trouble sharing their feelings, especially toward the beginning of their marriage. Turning to religious resources for support such as the Bible or a priest can help you and your spouse during times when there are communication issues. Positive religious experiences can lead to spouses becoming closer to each other and creating a deeper relationship.

• Faith can help you to keep temptation at bay

“Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak” (Matthew 26:41).

Infidelity is one of the biggest challenges that young couples face. People who are influenced by their faith are more likely to follow the Bible and resist temptation. It can remind you and your spouse about the importance of marriage and staying faithful to your partner. There are of course challenges that may require outside help, such as a marriage counselor, but with faith by your side and regular prayer together, this process will be a lot easier.

How to Grow Spiritually in a Marriage
Many couples view marriage as an opportunity to grow spiritually. While it can be a challenge, communication is an important part of any relationship. To start, you need to focus on developing a deeper understanding of each other. Couples should set aside time to talk and listen to each other. This can help build trust and understanding between the two of you. Additionally, couples should practice self-reflection and take the time to learn more about each other’s spiritual beliefs. By doing so, you can build a stronger and more fulfilling bond with your partner.

Important Things to Keep in Mind When Exercising Faith in Marriage
Exercising faith in your marriage can be difficult, but here are five important things to keep in mind:

• God loves you

Having faith starts with trusting God. He loves you, and he is on your side. God is not against your marriage, He wants the best for both of you. Keep this in mind when practicing your faith together. God’s infinite power will help you during any challenge.

• Unity is essential

Jesus aims for unity. As with the Trinity (John 17:20–21), He wants you and your spouse to be one. Work together and aim for unity with each other and God.

• You are victorious in Jesus

You are already victorious in Jesus (1 Corinthians 15:17). Christ gives you the strength to overcome all obstacles. Even on your worst days, when your marriage seems to be falling apart, remember to work together as a couple and with Jesus by your side.

• You are never alone

 “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” (Hebrews 13:5). It may seem like you are alone during dark days or that you are the only one fighting for your marriage, but you are not. Jesus is always there with you. He is there to guide you, and he will never leave you.

• The power of the Spirit will guide you

2 Corinthians 9:8: “And God can bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.” Once you put your faith in God, he will align your faith with your desires. He will bless you abundantly and help you do whatever it takes to save or grow your marriage.

Tips for a Christ-Centered Marriage
Marriage is a beautiful thing, and it takes work to maintain it. Fortunately, there are some tips and tricks that can help you keep your marriage on the right path.

• Pray together

Start by praying together and reading the Bible together to stay connected to God. Make sure to practice forgiveness and open communication with each other, and always remember to show kindness and understanding.

• Spend more time together

It’s important to spend time together and strengthen your bond. Make sure to make time for each other and your marriage by going out on dates and having fun together. If you have kids, have a babysitter over so you both can spend a date night or two a week together.

• Trust in God

It can be easy to lose faith during challenging times. Remind each other of the power of prayer and encourage your spouse to pray, not just for themselves, but for your marriage. Put your trust in God as he will be there no matter what you are going through. He will help grow your marriage.

• Attend church and church groups

The church will help you strengthen your bond with God. Attend prayer services with your spouse regularly and practice your faith. Some church groups have group classes specifically for young married couples. It will help you meet like-minded church attendees and people going through the same problems as you and discuss ways to improve your marriage.